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How do you know if someone fancies you? The Internet has the answer...

The Internet is awash with advice for playing it cool in the love stakes - treating them mean to keep them keen and all that jazz. Thankfully, Reddit users have come out in force to cut through all the coquettishness and answer that age-old dating question: how do you know if someone fancies you?


THEY EAT STEAK

"An extra big hint is if you find out it's something they aren't normally into. I invited a girl to a recently-opened steak house I wanted to try out. She said sure, then proceeded to scour the menu until she found a salad. Turns out she was a vegetarian but she still wanted to go. That's a green light if I've ever seen one."


SUDDENLY THEY'RE EVERYWHERE

"They start showing up around you more. Sometimes they talk to you, sometimes they just hang around. But they will just sort of... Be there. A classic move known as the "Biden," where one just sort of inserts themselves into your life."


THEY IGNORE EVERYONE ELSE

"They pay you attention, seem to focus more on you than anyone else when you're together as part of a group and seem at their happiest when you're together alone."


THEY WANT TO LEARN YOUR POKER SKILLS

"I had a blackjack dealer at a casino I frequent ask me if I played poker. (I would shuffle chips and so on). She asked me if I could teach her one day. I said "aren't you supposed to know poker hands if you're a dealer?" the floor man overheard and just shook his head at my idiocy. I have never hit my head on a steering wheel so much in my life."


THEY'LL GO SPIDER COLLECTING WITH YOU

"Before we started dating, my SO travelled 300 km to help me collect live wolf-spiders (Australian) from traps in the ground. I'm a biologist. He's a programmer with zero spider collecting experience. He travelled a long way to assist me with a task most regular people wouldn't poke with a stick. That's how I knew he was into me."


THEY'RE THE BEST MEMORY KEEPERS

"They ask questions about things that are important to you. They remember things you've told them or things you've done that others don't pay attention to. They listen intently."


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Author: Rebecca

Rebecca lives in London with her husband, daughter and dachshund. She hopes her dating blogs for Flame Introductions will inspire you to seek out the best London and UK locations for brilliant dates, and discover some tips along the way to help you find your perfect partner.

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